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5 Top Tips On How To Flirt With Guys To Get Dates

December 17, 2014 By Christie Leave a Comment

How To Flirt With GuysFor women with some good flirting skills, chatting and laughing with guys is fun and productive. If you’re shy or have not had a lot of experience, you might take the time to learn how to flirt with guys, so you can have more fun the next time you go out to a club or other social event.

Keep in mind that flirting can also be a harmless pastime. All you want to do is let a cute guy know that you have some interest. You, as the female, should be in complete control and have no obligation to take it any further than a flirt.

How To Flirt With Men

First, you might associate flirting with talking and laughing. However, nonverbal cues are just as important. You should learn to give off he right cues. You should also learn to tell if a guy is giving off good vibrations towards you. So here are 5 top flirting tips for women…

1. Make Eye Contact While You Flirt

Always make eye contact. Some women don’t even realize that they are looking at the floor, the wall, or even another guy when they are flirting. The main thing you hope to accomplish is to let a guy know that you have some interest. Of course, if he can see your beautiful eyes, that can’t hurt.

Make Eye Contact While FlirtingPay attention to see if the guy maintains eye contact too. If he does, it is a sure sign that he likes you and is open to learning more about you. If he doesn’t, it might mean he’s not interested. On the other hand, it might just mean that he hasn’t developed very good social skills either.

In some cases, guys simply look away because they are shy. But if you’re chatting with a guy, and he keeps looking at other women, that might be a good sign that this particular man is not really worth your energy. You’ll have to be the judge.

2. Smile In A Friendly Way

There have actually been studies that show that smiling makes people more attractive to others. If you smile in a friendly way, you will also seem more pleasant and approachable. That might just be the incentive that a guy needs to continue the conversation longer.

Flirting and SmilingAnother good thing about smiling is that it also has the effect of making you feel better. You might think that you only smile when you’re happy. Sometimes, you may find that smiling helps you get into a better mood.

3. Watch Your Arms

Be careful not to keep your arms crossed. You might do this because you are nervous, but it is a sign that you are closed off or defensive. It works in exactly the opposite way that smiling does, and it makes you seen unapproachable, and maybe it might even make you seem angry. You don’t want to scare a cute guy off before you even get a good chance to flirt with him, do you?

4. Practice Flipping Your Hair

We don’t know why, but hair flipping is really feminine. It also helps draw attention to that great hair that you have. If you flip your hair, or even play with it just a bit, you’ll be sending signals to a guy that you are interested in him. Just don’t overdo it, or it can even look comical.Play with your hair - but not too much!In a similar way, playing with earrings, a necklace, or a bracelet can provide one of the feminine and subtle cues that you are interested. Besides, the action will draw attention to your lovely hands and whatever part of your body you have the jewelry on.

5. Try To Look Your Best

Look Your BestYou don’t have to wear designer clothes and high heels all the time. In fact, you should wear the kind of clothes that you feel comfortable wearing. The thing to do is make sure those clothes are always kept neat and clean. In some situations, jeans, a casual shirt, and flip flops might be the right attire. Just be sure that whatever you have on looks nice on you.

Should You Make The First Move?

Let’s say you’re at a dance or party and see a guy that you’ve been interested in. However, he’s on the other side of the room chatting with his buddies. What do you do? Is it okay for women to make the first move?

Well, it is not okay to plunge yourself down on his lap. However, it certainly is alright to find a reason to wander over to his side of the room, catch his eyes, and smile. If he absolutely doesn’t look at you, it might be the wrong time. Who knows? Maybe his ex is in the room, and he feels self-conscious.

Ask A Question To Start The Conversation

However, he might just be shy. The best way for you to start the conversation is by coming up with a question that you can ask him. If he’s with a group of friends, you may have to come up with a general question that you can ask the whole group.

Don't be afraid to start a conversationFor example, you might ask a question about cars or new phone apps. These are likely to be the kinds of questions that guys will be willing to answer and have an interest in. Anyway, if the guy has no interest, you should be able to tell pretty quickly by how he reacts to your question. Besides, if he is not willing to answer a friendly question, you probably want to find a friendlier guy to flirt with anyway.

Summary

Remember that flirting with men really comes down to nonverbal cues. Remember to engage your guy’s eyes, smile, and keep your arms from getting crossed because it makes you look like you’re not open.

If you need to make the first move, try to ask a question that you believe the guy can answer. That should engage him in conversation if he’s interested in you, and the conversation might get him even more interested in you. Once you learn how to flirt with guys, you’ll probably find that it is a lot of fun!

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