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How to Attract Men and Know if the Attraction is True

December 8, 2014 By Christie

How To Attract MenAre you someone who has started to believe that finding true love will never happen for you? Perhaps all of your romantic endeavors end with you being disappointed, hurt or both.

Sometimes women do not take enough time to heal between bouts of dating. This sets you on a course where you continue to fall into the same dating patterns. Some women do not take a moment to reflect and determine whether or not they are contributing to their own heart breaks. Does this ring a bell with you?

Let go of the notion that you will be able to get any man that you want. After all, getting – and keeping – a man all to yourself are two quite different things. Just as you are not attracted to all men, all men will not be attracted to you. You can put the odds in your favor by taking some time to work on how you present yourself to the world.

Confidence

These days, there are quite a few women who are seen as being powerful. Many are actually powerful in terms of financial status and popularity; others are in powerful positions. Don’t let this lead you into believing that they have never experienced heartbreaks or felt insecure.

What many men find attractive about these women has nothing to do with their bank accounts or their, perhaps, attractive features. These women have mastered the art of attracting men by using confidence.

Be a confident womanKeep in mind that there is a fine line between cockiness and confidence. So, do not go overboard, but you do need to appreciate the person you are. That includes your flaws and imperfections.

Watch how you point out your flaws when speaking to men. Some women do it thinking that it will make the guys respond by pointing out their good attributes, but there are some guys who do not see this in a good light. Some may take your commentary on your flaws as being a sign of having low self-esteem.

Humor

Seriousness has a place. Some guys assume that women who cannot find a way to laugh are boring or mean. Find a way to put a smile on your face in uncomfortable situations. For example, if you drop your silverware during dinner. Do not call yourself an idiot or similar names. Do not show signs of embarrassment. Instead, cleverly talk your way through the situation.

A woman should have a sense of humor

A statement such as, “Wow! I guess it will be a few more minutes before I get to chow down,” can actually ease the tension and deflect from any nervousness. This type of thinking and being able to see the positive side and apply humor in situations is a key point in how to attract men. It may take some work, but you can do it.

Don’t Be Clingy

Guys need to see that you have a life. The last thing you want to do is get overly involved too quick. This can cause your male suitors to run away from you fast. You need to have a life of your own.

Yes, if things get serious, you will want to spend more time with the man you are dating. Initially, you should not be forcing your way into attending events and functions unless you are invited. If you do not get invited out with him and his friends in the beginning, ensure you have things you can do to keep you busy.

Don't be a clingy womanIf invites are few and far between, you may start asking yourself, “is he interested?” If he is, he will ask you what you did to occupy your time. Stay busy so that he sees that you have an independent life. You can choose to go out with family or friends, go to the gym, attend a night course or even spend a quiet night in. Just make sure the time is not occupied with texting him, calling him or wasting hours thinking about him and when he is going to contact you.

Honesty

If you have done some things you regret, it may seem normal to keep the information hidden in the beginning of a new relationship. You do not need to be a liar though. There’s no sense in pretending to be one way all in an effort to get the guy. Later when he finds out the truth, he may not want you.

Honesty in a relationshipKnowing how to attract a guy requires you to be honest with yourself, and you certainly do not have to go and tell every guy you date about your horrible moments in life. You can use tact and not discuss some things until you know that you’re taking the relationship to higher levels. Avoid lies, and put yourself in your suitors’ shoes. You want honesty from him, so you need to be honest with him in turn.

Final Thoughts

So, how to tell if a man is attracted to you? Watch to see how often he contacts you. Pay attention to whether you are always the one to initiate contact or arrange dates. Some men are busy with work and school, so they may not be able to offer much of their time. However, if he wants you, he will make sure you get some of his free time. No one is busy all the time, and sometimes how to attract a man is all about reciprocating his actions. Give the same level of attention to him that he gives to you.

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